Loving or Leaving
From an edited transcript of a talk at the Master Session 8 November 2000.
Woman of Love has no problems inside of her. She’s not trying to change anyone, not even her beloved man. She’s tried that and found that man will never, ever change. If she tries to change him he will get defensive. A woman of love has learnt: ‘All I have to do, if he is worthy, is love him’. In being the wonder of love that she is, there’s the possibility he will be sensitive enough to change. But is he worthy? If he’s not worthy, she will leave him; because when she loves a man, she is not attached to him. But if he truly loves her, why would she ever leave? Women only leave men because they don’t truly love them.
Men only leave women who are not worthy of love. If he just loves her, and she is the right woman, then she is changed. But if she is the wrong woman, and she continues to get emotional, he will eventually leave her. There’s a great law, an integrity, here: If a woman cannot love enough, then the man will leave her. And if the man is not enough love, she will leave him.