Speaking of love...
How often did you talk of love today with the person who shares your life?
Unless each day you speak first of love, who do you think you are fooling with your big job, your big name, your independence, or your aloofness to the pangs and joys of love?
Your utterances of love are real only in that moment. You cannot declare that you will love tomorrow any more than you can say you will delight in each other tomorrow. Your love and joy in each other must be made new and fresh every moment, rediscovered day in and day out, and not just in the act of lovemaking. There is no continuity in love; only in our expectation of it. But if you are prepared to love ceaselessly your love is forever.
Talk of God, truth, love, death and life. All those are in truth one subject - love. Talk from your own spiritual experience, your self-knowledge. By doing that you declare to each other that love is the most important thing for you.
Only man and woman who can talk of love and truth can make love for love, and discover love together, instead of making emotion and pain.
Extract from The Way In
The Locks and the Keys