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Woman and loneliness

Woman – to bring love to yourself, you have to really love, for you are woman and woman is custodian of love on this planet and you are she.

But unless you are loving, all that you are going to bring to you is a lonely man who wants a mother or who wants somebody to look after him or who wants to take advantage of your having a house. You bring that sort of thing to you with your loneliness. And the chances are you will reach out and grab it because he is such a nice man.

The mystery will guide your path if only you will love it…

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The mystery is there to be loved.

You acknowledge the mystery by being grateful for what you have.

You are fortunate to have a kitchen table.

Why don't you be grateful for what you do have and give thanks. Speak to the kettle and say thank you kettle. It would get your mind off your rotten self.

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Innocence is to hold nothing against anyone

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We wonder why am I unhappy. Why does my love life not work? Why can't I find a partner that I can live with in harmony. All the Whys come down to the fact that people are not in their bodies. How do I get this intelligence that thinks in me back into the body?

What is true in your experience. That is the invitation that I give to people. That is the first way here to start to enter the body.

The second way is to start to enter the pure sensation of the body.

There are two sensations in the body. One is the pure sensation of the body and the other is the sensation of emotion.

Our emotions always give us sensationalism is what the media and the movies and everyone tries to give us.

Pure sensation is the sense of love now.

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The love of woman is the love of God in existence for man because they are equal partners in this existence or they were to begin with.

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What is this charade of man and woman’s love as it is here today? What is it? It is just an endeavour to find love in a world that doesn't believe in love or doesn't have any time for love. It has only time for progress.

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When you love her she will give you everything that she is. That is not an ideal. An ideal is something that hasn't been lived. It has been lived.

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Obliterate him or her from your mind and your emotions. You must turn away. Yesterdays man, yesterdays woman – finished!

It is nail after nail into the flesh. The torment of hanging on to old love that doesn't love you anymore doesn't want to be with you anymore.

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Love is always here

It is impossible to know love. You can only love love.

Love centred on any object is doomed – as all things must pass away or die.

Love is immortal life and we are compelled by the world to try to find it in mortal bodies. This search for love inevitably ends in frustration, heartache, disenchantment or sorrow – since the loved one or the lover must one day leave or die.

Life is the mystery behind the whole of existence – behind living and death. You in your reality are that mystery. And like mystery, there is just no end to Thee.

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In true love no one can ever leave you. But when you are living a life of attachment so many things leave you. And you settle for sentimental love which is the human condition of unhappiness.

To rid yourself of unhappiness you have to have a higher love than human love and sentimentality. You have to purify your love. Love without attachment is pure love.

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The truth behind all longing awakes when you do; in the shattering of your dreams. When you are real enough to stand dreamless and alone on earth, then you are in Paradise.

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The error of the world is in you and me. Free the world of your error and you free it of yourself. Free it of yourself and you create a little bit of space for love and rightness to surface in the world and work for good.

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To free the world or anything of yourself is to help to heal it. Love and rightness are already there ready to work on any condition of sickness, poverty or misery once you create the necessary space in your being by getting yourself out of the way.

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Only personal tragedy changes us.

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Life can’t be studied. You can’t study life on earth because you are life on earth. You can only love life and be life.

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Pray to be one with life, one with the good, one with the earth, one with the source, one with God.

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Everyone has something to be thankful for. Everyone has some good in their life. But it is human nature to focus for the most part on difficulties and problems, and not on the good. The simplest and most powerful prayer is the one in which you continually give heartfelt thanks for what you’ve been given in your living life.

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When you change or transform your person, your life becomes increasingly easy and finally unimaginably more fulfilling.

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It is what we are inside that emanates.

You will never be really happy in your house while you are emanating unhappiness.

The walls of your house psychically absorb what you are and then they give that back.

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Give up your problems and just act and do the best you can. Stop worrying about your problems, and stop emotionalizing about them. You will be amazed at how the instinctual intelligence starts to sort things out for you. Like it sorts it out for the rabbit and the fox.

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What you acknowledge you get.

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The more I acknowledge something that I see as good and right and true, the more it keeps coming to me.

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Humanity’s inner space is absolutely cluttered with feelings and mental aberrations such as opinions, beliefs, faith in something or other, instead of faith in the whole.

How do we get this cluttering?

You got cluttered from experience. Through your body experiencing the external projection of people, of society.

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Real love never forgets but phony love always remembers.

If you want to avoid falling in love and having your heart broken man or woman, then you walk through the world like a zombie.

You transform yourself by seeing the mystery now.

You will never ever understand your love life. No chance. No chance.

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There is only one life and that is a life of elegance and the greatest art is to turn out in your lifetime a man or a woman who is freed of unhappiness.

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Be grateful for the love that you feel. Acknowledgment is the only way to keep love alive.

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The answer to the problem is always in the problem itself.

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It is a wonderful thing to have your heart broken. I know that sounds terrible. But it breaks up the structures in a man.

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Hear me, man and woman,

Man – if you want to win another lady then you had better give this one up that you are re-membering from your past.

Woman – if you want to attract another man then you had better give this one up that you are re-membering from your past.

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What the human race doesn't know is that they are in jail and they are not free because they don't know they are in jail.

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In real love you don't want to consider your self. You only want to love and serve and give to the beloved woman or man.~

There are no problems on earth. The earth is beautiful, joyous, cosmic, eternal. The world is the unhappy superstructure man has imposed on the earth. The world consists of his problems. Both earth and the world are within you.

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There are no justifications for unhappiness, none whatever. To remove any room in you for doubt and interpretations I will repeat the fundamental truth: Any mental or emotional pain you feel at any time in your life, irrespective of the cause, is due to the world in you. You have left the earth and are concentrating on the world.

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Anything you love in the world will cause you pain. That pain is the hell you must pass through – either now, or in the process of your physical death. Go through hell wrongly and you go round in circles making more problems, more world without end, more hell for yourself. Go through hell rightly and you reunite with the changeless beauty and joy of the earth in yourself as yourself. And in spite of your worldly dreads and fears, you lose nothing. For only fear dies.

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There is only one good in the world and that is God. And what is God? God is a lovely day. God is everything, God is nothing in particular.~

You must see through yourself by recognising that your pain or confusion is your love of the world.

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Sweetness and innocence are your nature.

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You are like a lovely flower – your roots planted firmly in love, and your perception of life shining with beauty and the intention of good; for all who can see, to see. That’s the truth. That’s what you are . . . or that’s what you were before your personality took over.

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All emotion is the past reasserting itself…

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Life moves every moment

The stress of the personality arises out of the terrible contradiction of trying to hold on to existence while the life that you are lets go every moment.

Life is ceaseless movement.

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Give up your dishonesty

Give up being dishonest to yourself and your life. Any time you’re angry, resentful or depressed, it means you are not being honest: you are not facing life as it is.

Anger arises because you are not getting your own way.

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Love is the point of the pyramid of existence, not part of it.

Love is real. But the love that knows pain is not real.

Real love is pure and natural; it is not selfish and emotional like human love.

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Pure love is unselfish because it doesn’t need to take a single thing away from anyone.

Being complete and unending, it ensures there’s no unhappiness in you to make others unhappy. That is love.

Love does not cause pain. Only ignorance causes pain.

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‘Good’ must follow ‘bad’ and ‘bad’ must follow ‘good’ as day follows night and night follows day.~

When it comes, love will teach you – to be what you are.

Love will come to you without your looking for it. Suddenly it will be there.

Love is joy and joy has no opposite.

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Love is delight.

It is not a matter of saying 'I love you.'

You have to demonstrate all day, every day, by your actions – otherwise the words are useless.

That is what love is, a delight – and that is what we have lost in this world – the demonstration of it.

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The love of man for woman, and woman for man, has the potential to transform the entire life…

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Now what is the situation between man and woman?

This: you and I together, man and woman, are together to enjoy being with one another.

We are together to enjoy our lives together.

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Wisdom in 100 words

Wisdom or truth is the original and natural state of intelligence.

Intelligence is corrupted by likes and dislikes.

The result is the problematical human condition.

Likes are the desire to win and hold onto, and dislikes are the desire not to lose or fail.

Winning means pleasure or elation and losing means annoyance or unhappiness.

When likes and dislikes are dissolved the human condition of fluctuating pleasure and pain vanishes.

An uninterrupted state of equilibrium no ups, no downs is then constant.

And wisdom or truth is the natural expression

Everyone's life consists only of events.

Events are impersonal.

Events are personalised by the mind and emotions and made reasonable and purposeful by likes and dislikes.

Likes and dislikes determine the interests and desires of the person.

Not everyone has the same likes and dislikes which is why some are interested in golf and some are not and some are attracted to people that others are not.

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Man and woman, are together to enjoy being with one another…

…as soon as it is not an enjoyment, the very first day or moment that it is not an enjoyment, the very first word that is uttered which shows between us that it is no longer an enjoyment, in the sense that it is not clear, or one of us is unhappy, that moment has to be seized on, and said: “What is wrong? Why are you unhappy with me? How am I not loving you? What have I done that is not pleasing you?”

That very moment it has to be seized on. Not swept under the carpet like our mothers and fathers did, and like we are tempted to do: “Oh it’ll be alright, you know, it’s just a passing thing” – it is not a passing thing, it is going to accumulate. Every bit of lack of love and honesty is going to accumulate as emotion.

And eventually it will put a blockage in my system. And I will be afraid to speak to you. Fear will gather in me. Or I can’t be bothered. And then you won’t be able to communicate with me and we will live together, growing further and further apart.

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The first sign or word that you are unhappy, or I am unhappy, has to be faced: “Why- what have I done to you? What are you doing to me?"

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In the next relationship, the next man or woman that you meet, you start off being honest to love, by knowing what you’re doing and making sure that he or she whom you feel attracted to, knows what you are doing with your life. “I am endeavouring to love more, to be more honest, to be more true to life. That does not mean that you have to be. But anyone that I am with, has to be interested in the same sort of thing.”

And if they are, then you have a solid basis for love, in which you can use the divine power of man and woman’s love and honesty to reveal the past selves in each of you, and address it.

So that each of you, in your love, takes it out of the other. And we start to enjoy our life together, putting God or first, before my self.

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I even go as far as to say – that no woman should take on a partner in a love-making situation or in a loving situation, a man that has troubles. And no man should take on a woman who has troubles in her life.

Now as it's been pointed out to me, it seems that everybody has troubles. That makes it a bit difficult, doesn't it?

Why do I want to take on an emotional woman? Why? Who breaks down into tears or emotions, why do I want to take that on?

My life is supposed to be lived in joyous harmony, not jumping up and down – up this moment and down the next. A harmony – that's my life.

Why should I put up with and deal with what you won't put up with and deal with, no thanks.

You get rid of it and then I can love you.

Same with man, why should you have to put up with a man with troubles – why?

He's going to put them on you. He's going to load you with them, he's going to want you to take his burden.

You've got enough of your own to get rid of, you can't get rid of his.

No matter how much he puts on you, you can't get rid of his burden, you've just got to get rid of him or her.

You can't take another's burden like that.

It's not right, it makes everybody dependent.

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I don't want any woman on earth or any man that I love, with me, to tell me his troubles, thanks. You shouldn't have any troubles. You should be attending to the difficulties in your life and they will diminish. Where I come from, it is possible to have an untroubled love and an untroubled life – in my external circumstances and in my love life, within me and everywhere.

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There is such a thing as Karma. There is such a thing as past repeating itself. If you are Love, you will create Love out of yourself.

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If I take on a man who drinks to excess or a woman who drinks to excess, I'm going to have troubles. And if you think you can save him or change him, I don't like your chances. But woman will often do these things because she really is love and if she loves a man, she'll think she can change him. I don't like the chances. If he loves drugs or anything more than you, you've got troubles. And the same with man - just the same.

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You don't need a holiday. What you need to do is change your life so that you don't need a holiday.

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If you don't care what people think about you, that is a very good start.

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If you want to be loved – then go and love.

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If I acknowledge love in my partner then I get more love.

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The only thing lovers have to say is ‘I love you.’

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Whatever I put into the psyche I get back. If you, woman, love excitement and sexuality, you will draw to your self an exciting man and a thrilling man but he won't love you.

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Man – the way to relate to a woman is to love her... simply love her, merely love her – love her, love her, love her…

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(To man –) Until you learn to love woman you will think about love as woman…

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(To man –) You have to emanate a sense of love, you have to be able to talk to woman of love…

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(To woman –) If you never let a man who does not love you make love to you again, then you are on the right path…

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Live it, won't you? It is no use thinking about it. It has got to be lived to be the truth.

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We are here to help each other in a situation where we are man and woman, making love, to realize the most high, the most beautiful consciousness which is God.

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You have to look at your life and see what event makes you unhappy or emotional.

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The only cure for any thing in this existence, if it can be cured, is love. The love of God, the love of life and not holding on to the past of unhappiness.

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Be ordinary, and love God, and love woman if you are man or man if you are woman as best you can.

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Everything happens for a purpose in the spiritual life.

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