Being true to the situation
'I must be true to the situation that is presented to me as the circumstances of my life. When you look at a situation, you look to see what can be done... when I look to see what can be done in a situation, the answer comes from the situation... There's no thinking...'
'Every situation needs to be looked at, not to be felt about. It is intelligent to look – it is not intelligent to feel.'
'...the situation is that in a relationship, there's only one thing in a relationship, and that is that we both enjoy being together.'
SESSIONS
True to the Situation, Not Your Feelings: Dissolving Karma through Present Honesty
Length: 1 hours and 45 minutes
Barry emphasises the necessity of centring one’s life on truth, honesty, and love—not on recurring emotional patterns or social concepts—bringing clarity to relationships, personal pain, and the purpose of karma.
Divine Intelligence or Personal Will?
Length: 1 hours and 30 minutes
Being True to the Situation: Practical Wisdom for the Human Condition
Length: 1 hours and 27 minutes
In this extended dialogue with the audience, Barry Long guides individuals to be true to their situations by addressing the emotional roots of suffering, revealing the importance of personal responsibility.