Start over, get rid of the past
The woman has learned to make love from men who do not know how to make love. The result is chaos and confusion. Since the beginning of time she has been manipulated and encouraged to feel that the finest expression of her love is to please him sexually. The truth is the other way around: the finest expression of her love is for a man to delight her sexually. This he can only do when he can forget her preoccupation with the orgasm and is present enough in love or altruism to collect and receive the divine energies from her, her finest expression of love.
By teaching her to please and satisfy him, over the years, he has taught her to desire him, to project himself to her sexually. This leads her to choose the man she wants. Desire and choice arise from masculine emotionality, the starting active principle that made the world what it is. So she chooses her man with his masculine-induced vibes, and almost invariably, she's the wrong person.
The woman as a true being does not desire the man. She doesn't need it. She is the passive principle of attraction. As a true being, she is like a living, irresistible magnet that, without choice or error, will attract to herself the true man who will love her truly and divinely. Unlike the man, the woman in her true self can exist without sexual penetration or masturbation. She expects love, not sex. Babies have long been her partial substitute for love in sex. The only reason she started going into a dream when making love in the first place was to escape her growing lack of love.
The woman only yearns for the man when she identifies with his forced masculine emotionality. Nymphomania is an entirely male projection and invention, like sex shops, pornography, and prostitution. The woman has been totally sexually deceived by the man, pathologically brainwashed. And today, as she congratulates herself on progress in breaking male domination in the world, she fails to perceive that he has her as hooked as ever on substitutes for lovemaking. Love, and not equality, is what feminist external protests are based on. Male domination began in sex and continues unabated in sex. It is the man's world and he built it on the force of his sexual assault.
But the woman cannot alter her position by withdrawing from sex or using other mechanisms. She has tried them all through the centuries and none have worked or will work. The problem is now racial, beyond the personal sphere of those involved in solving it. Only divine action or awareness can help. Let me ask you, now listen women: Do you have any idea how to break free from male sexual domination? How to treat the authentic love of your life again? How to make your man and yourself start to love, truly love as something tangible that you can really create together and build during the time you are together? You know? If you know please tell me. Say it now, out loud or to someone before I tell you. Say it now before you try after I speak, to tell you that you knew all along. Because if you say that afterwards, you can forget it, you won't change. You are not going to make love. To bring love into your sex life you are going to need a lot of new energy.
That energy begins with honesty - honesty to yourself and to the life that is trying to help you.
First, you must hear yourself admit that your love life is not good enough. You must verbalize it, say it, listen to it so that there are no hiding places, psychological escapes. It is not enough to know that you love inside and not say it anymore. Then when it's too late, they sob and cry for their love, but the door is already slammed, the house is empty. You must say it now so that your whole being hears it.
Second, if you are seeing the truth of what I have said about love, you must declare to yourself that it is true. Third, you must admit to yourself that you personally don't know what to do about the problem, that you have no power outside of taking all the old actions that human beings have taken in desperation, and desperation has driven them quite unsuccessfully since man began. and the woman fell in love for the first time and time, or emotion began to come between them. Be honest. If you already know the answer, why haven't you? And if you have the answer, why are you reading this? It is true that once upon a time you, both a man and a woman, knew how to make love.
If you are hearing the truth of what I am saying, it means not only that you are ready to remember it again, but that you have actually begun to remember. And if while I continue you continue to verbally acknowledge the truth of If your body or some other body can hear your diligence and humility, there will be enough energy in you to make a practical start. Such honesty and self-awareness breeds passion.
Passion is the power of love and true commitment. Passion is the only energy powerful enough to get the job done. It will not be easy. You will need every bit of strength and self-awareness in your being. Remembering and acknowledging the truth while hearing it is one thing, living it or putting it into practice is the next.
Her experience, of course, is what really counts, and that's hard. However, if you have the courage, your own honesty, and you want your freedom, your love, I will guide you to experience it. Please ask yourself those questions again: Is your love life good enough? Is what I have said so far the truth, or does it sound like the truth to you? Can you yourself through your own knowledge or effort solve the problem? Need help? Examine this last question closely. If the answer is yes, say, "Yes, I need help." Admit that you cannot do it alone, because when you abandon yourself, when you truly surrender in humility, help is always there within you, and then it appears outside of you.
Continue to ask yourself these questions each time you read this. It reaffirms the energy of honesty and true need. And as you put what I have told you into practice and see it work, recognize the truth of it. Keep the passion flowing with gratitude to love and life. Otherwise you will gradually forget what you have heard and by practicing, you will give up the struggle and slide back into the vicious circle where nothing can be done. To start making divine love anew, you must first learn to let go of your own past. You must unlearn or discard everything you have already accumulated emotionally.
If you have had a broken love in the past, or a bad sexual experience, that emotion will still be with you, especially if you are a woman. If you are a man and you study pornographic magazines or sexually suggestive images, that emotion is there in you now, waiting to erupt and take possession of you as arousal and premature ejaculation at the first sexual opportunity. We are all sexually charged, ready to get out emotionally as soon as there is a chance of penetration. But, of course, we cannot possibly mention or know all of our past experiences associated with sexual emotion stretching back to our childhood. All of them have merged into a complex and deep darkness that is too complicated and dark for us to ever define.
A love that endures